What is conditioned dialling up in the first 16 weeks of life?

If you're a parent, the best way to benefit from the Possums approach to a baby who cries a lot is by reading The discontented little baby book, which is available in both English and Dutch, or by seeing an NDC Accredited Practitioner. In The discontented little baby book, I tell stories from other parents' experiences and explain how you might help your baby and your family, in ways that are easy to understand.

What is conditioned dialling up in the first 16 weeks of life?

In the NDC or Possums programs, we make sense of babies who cry a lot in the first 16 weeks of life using the concept of conditioned dialling up. Before reading this page, I suggest you find out about the dial on your baby's sympathetic nervous system here, and about conditioned dialling up here.

In the NDC or Possums' programs, excessive crying in the first few months of life is an hour by hour, day by day, generalised form of conditioned dialling up. I think of it this way: your precious little baby is, or has become, very sensitive. Often, it's very hard to know why.

Perhaps you and your little one had a difficult start, with the birth or with time in special care or various medical interventions - necessary for protecting life and wellbeing, but which have made it harder for him to get in sync with you in various ways.

But it's often impossible to know why your little one cries a lot. As mothers and parents we try so incredibly hard to do the right thing by our tiny child. Who wants to think that our precious little newborn or bubby is experiencing fearfulness or is distressed, when you're doing everything humanly possible to wrap her in love and care?

Crying a lot doesn't cause your baby long-term harm, but is very distressing for parents. Life with your precious little baby is a lot harder than I'd want it to be for you, when your little one is crying a lot.

The neurobiological model for cry-fuss problems in early life, upon which the Possums 5-domain approach has been developed, proposes that

• Babies can get into crying loops. High levels of sympathetic nervous system activity trigger more sympathetic nervous system activity, in feedback loops which can be hard to dial down. This is why we try to get in early with our responses, though of course that doesn't always work, especially once our baby has become very sensitive.

• The stress response threshold lowers in response to conditioned dialling up, which results in conditioned sympathetic nervous system hyperarousal in response to very small things, or even things which are undetectable to parents, but which the baby reacts to. I call this a "dial which is stuck on high". The good thing to know is that it usually "unsticks" after about 16 weeks of age.

What are the main things to consider if baby cries a lot in the first 16 weeks of life?

If your baby is crying a lot, it's important to have your baby checked over by your local GP. You might also, in discussions with your GP, like to find an NDC Accredited Practitioner near you, for specialised help.

• You can find out about helping your baby who cries a lot in the Brief & simple section starting here.

• You can go directly to steps you might work through when your baby cries a lot here.

Recommended resources

About conditioned dialling up in babies or toddlers and how to prevent it

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